Anna Kai

Anna Kai spent her twenties dating all the wrong men in New York City so you don’t have to. Known for her “GRWM” videos on TikTok (@itsmaybeboth) and Instagram (@maybeboth) where she dishes out no-BS dating and life advice while doing her makeup, Anna uses her platforms to champion women and marginalized voices, and to remind her community of 1.8 million combined “Biddies” that love is truly, not lost at all if we know how to find ourselves first. After spending over a decade in NYC being a hot mess, she now spends her days in Connecticut with her husband and golden retriever being a different kind of hot mess (who TF knew owning a house would be so stressful?! Why is everything always leaking?!). Born to Chinese immigrants, Anna’s social media handles are an homage to being both Chinese and American, to the multitudes that lie within us all, and to the fact that she always wants two desserts at dinner (ice cream and cheesecake, if anyone’s asking).